blessed to have touched the sun
I'm a grown woman and I can do whatever I want.
( Spectators)

unfollower:

no see lesbians are not more accepted than gay men they’re more sexualized please do not get those 2 things confused


87daysbefore:

norsegays:

astrolope:

People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.

I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.

A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?

It is a big deal because i’m a transman

It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.

Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.

At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.

At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.

TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.

as much as it’s a stressful job, target is the best place i’ve ever worked and they care about their employees so much. you can literally go back to target and start working again whenever. they don’t just drop you. god i love target.



via: siphotos
siphotos:

In this week’s SI, Jason Collins comes out of the closet as the first openly gay player in a major American team sport. (Kwaku Alston/SI)
LIDZ: Jason Collins explains why he came out of closet

siphotos:

In this week’s SI, Jason Collins comes out of the closet as the first openly gay player in a major American team sport. (Kwaku Alston/SI)

LIDZ: Jason Collins explains why he came out of closet


Gayby (2012)

Gayby (2012)



via: kevinless
source: transstudent

posted 1 month ago on 29/3 9,105 notes
#lgbtq

transcreature:

mocosyamores:

jietingx:

CHILLS DOWN MY SPINE. 

http://www.qwoc.org/2012/06/queer-rage-from-lgbt-students-of-color-poetry-performance-critiques-marriage-politics-and-is-badass/

ALL THE FUCKING CHILLS

damn, what a beautifully powerful performance.

Fucking beautiful….
“Rainbows are just a trick of the light”

this is EVERYTHING



via: b1r
source: anarcho-queer
anarcho-queer:

While the head honchos at the HRC are making 6 figure salaries from donations to support ‘marriage equality’, hundreds of thousands of LGBTQ youth are homeless andare purposely ignored by mainstream gay organizations. The ‘fight’ for same sex marriage has proven to be a profitable business for gay ‘non-profit’ businesses, so it’s no wonder why gay marriage overshadows all other LGBTQ issues. After all, helping the needy results in smaller pay.
Supporting gay marriage doesn’t mean you support the queer struggle. In fact, most ‘allies’ and even a large portion of more fortunate queers don’t know the facts about LGBTQ homelessness, violence against trans* people, high unemployment, discrimination, etc, nor do they bother to research it. They just care about their favorite gay celebrities being able to tie the knot.
If you care about the queer struggle, take a minute of your day to familiarize yourself with the disturbing statistics:
20- 40% of homeless youth are LGBTQ. In comparison, the general youth population is only 3-10% LGBTQ.
LGBTQ youth are twice as likely to experience sexual abuse before the age of 12.
LGBTQ youth, once homeless, are at higher risk for victimization, mental health problems, and unsafe sexual practices. 58.7% of LGBTQ homeless youth have been sexually victimized compared to 33.4% of heterosexual homeless youth
LGBTQ youth are roughly 7.4 times more likely to experience acts of sexual violence than heterosexual homeless youth
LGBTQ homeless youth commit suicide at higher rates (62%) than heterosexual homeless youth (29%)
At least 20% of ALL transgender people will be homeless sometime in their life.
29% of transgender people reported being turned away from a homeless shelter due to their transgender status.
Please consider taking action to help combat LGBTQ homelessness. I suggest making a donation to the Ali Forney Center or volunteering at your local LGBTQ homeless shelter.
P.S. Fuck the HRC!

anarcho-queer:

While the head honchos at the HRC are making 6 figure salaries from donations to support ‘marriage equality’, hundreds of thousands of LGBTQ youth are homeless andare purposely ignored by mainstream gay organizations. The ‘fight’ for same sex marriage has proven to be a profitable business for gay ‘non-profit’ businesses, so it’s no wonder why gay marriage overshadows all other LGBTQ issues. After all, helping the needy results in smaller pay.

Supporting gay marriage doesn’t mean you support the queer struggle. In fact, most ‘allies’ and even a large portion of more fortunate queers don’t know the facts about LGBTQ homelessness, violence against trans* people, high unemployment, discrimination, etc, nor do they bother to research it. They just care about their favorite gay celebrities being able to tie the knot.

If you care about the queer struggle, take a minute of your day to familiarize yourself with the disturbing statistics:

  • 20- 40% of homeless youth are LGBTQ. In comparison, the general youth population is only 3-10% LGBTQ.
  • LGBTQ youth are twice as likely to experience sexual abuse before the age of 12.
  • LGBTQ youth, once homeless, are at higher risk for victimization, mental health problems, and unsafe sexual practices. 58.7% of LGBTQ homeless youth have been sexually victimized compared to 33.4% of heterosexual homeless youth
  • LGBTQ youth are roughly 7.4 times more likely to experience acts of sexual violence than heterosexual homeless youth
  • LGBTQ homeless youth commit suicide at higher rates (62%) than heterosexual homeless youth (29%)
  • At least 20% of ALL transgender people will be homeless sometime in their life.
  • 29% of transgender people reported being turned away from a homeless shelter due to their transgender status.

Please consider taking action to help combat LGBTQ homelessness. I suggest making a donation to the Ali Forney Center or volunteering at your local LGBTQ homeless shelter.

P.S. Fuck the HRC!


posted 1 month ago on 27/3 15,488 notes
#lgbtq #TRUTH

via: thesaleminator
source: narvaezs

spaceycrazylady:

donaldglover:

20 Young People Who Believe Marriage Should Be Between a Man and a Woman

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So. No gay marriage:

  1. Because God.
  2. Because you’re not a lesbian.
  3. Because God.
  4. Because you want to be a princess…
  5. Because God.

Well, it’s good to see such all-inclusive, well-rounded arguments that pertain to people of diverse backgrounds, experiences, and beliefs.



via: kevinless

kevinless:

I just made a huge post that did not publish because I lost my connection. But here is the gist…

Today was such a missed opportunity for us as a collective queer community. Specifically, us gay dudes really fucked up. We do not get such a vast pouring in of support and solidarity every day, and we did nothing more with it than to spread an altered version of an existing logo. I was really upset with how many gay men gave me excuses for why it was okay to not explicitly mention the trans community, some even giving the excuse that “now isn’t the time yet.” It is 2013. It is always the time. And when we have widespread public attention, it is REALLY the time to progress the dialogue. More people than you might expect are open to hearing about the trans community and how things can get better—but they won’t even think about it if we don’t insist they start thinking about it. Unfortunately the trans community is very small, and they are equally limited in their resources because every mainstream gay activist organizations has steered almost all attention to white day men and lesbians when it is convenient. They do need our help to gain awareness, and we more than owe it to them.

We more power than ever in the gay community, and we are being way too selfish with it. Inform yourself, and next time a straight person is telling you about how they support gay rights, kindly let them know that we aren’t the only ones who need and deserve their support.

Get that conversation going, and consider opportunities for us (us being white gay men specifically, but really anyone) an opportunity for the trans community, lesbians, bisexuals, and PoC queer people. Luckily we should have that opportunity tomorrow when DOMA goes before the court tomorrow, so don’t fuck up!!!!!!!!

this is the culmination of everything I’ve been feeling all day. Even though I’m friends with very few gay men, this has been SO glossed over  and I’m going to write a facebook status about it because scrolling through my newsfeed was the most frustrating thing in the world tbh.

so many allies (except at this school bc everybody has like a 90% chance of being gay I cannot tell) (but still)


posted 1 month ago on 26/3 47 notes
#lgbtq

via: dendroica
source: bg5000

"It’s pretty simple. Portman went along with his party’s opposition to gay marriage because it didn’t affect him. He thought about gay rights the way Paul Ryan thinks about health care. And he still obviously thinks about most issues the way Paul Ryan thinks about health care.That Portman turns out to have a gay son is convenient for the gay-rights cause. But why should any of us come away from his conversion trusting that Portman is thinking on any issue about what’s good for all of us, rather than what’s good for himself and the people he knows?"  -

Rob Portman, Gay Marriage, and Selfishness (via bg5000)

So also: it’d be nice if some Republican congressman found out he had a hardworking, but still very poor, family member too.

(via shorterexcerpts)

This reminds me of the story that was going around last year about the conservative who moved to Canada and was suddenly a fan of universal healthcare. It seems a lot of these folks lack the ability to care about shit that doesn’t affect them - hell it’s even worse than that, they would actively oppress groups of people until that oppression hits home.

(via abaldwin360)

my mom was so cute she mentioned this to me and thought I was going to be all happy but nope I went on a huge rant


posted 2 months ago on 15/3 414 notes
#lgbtq
bkmenkonnect:


BREAKING: Obama signs LGBT-inclusive domestic violence bill

bkmenkonnect:

BREAKING: Obama signs LGBT-inclusive domestic violence bill



via: b1r
source: arcadiaego

"Homophobia isn’t the same as heteronormativity, at all, and I think that heteronormativity can be harder to fight because it’s so subconscious, so deeply ingrained throughout our entire society in all kinds of cultural productions, TV, film, books, everything. It’s everywhere. That’s harder to fight."  -

Malinda Lo (via arcadiaego)

#yeah i think straight ppl sometimes assume the world can be sorted into homophobes and queer allies #which no it isn’t that fucking simple #and it’s a really dangerous assumption to make b/c you can support equal marriage and have queer friends and queer relatives #and yet still perpetuate heteronormative ideals on a daily fucking basis (via electricskeptic)


kushbot3000:

shutupaubrey:

what does LGBT even stand for like lesbian gay bilingual taco

this is basically how everyone including the mainstream lgbt community treats bisexual and transgender people


posted 3 months ago on 10/2 6,963 notes
#lgbtq #sj
beyoncyay:

magnicifent:

dorothy-snarker:

Say hello to “The Fosters.” TV’s first drama centered around a family helmed by two moms. ABC Family picked up the series today to begin airing this summer. Love the cop uniform. And the subway tiles.

ABC Family continues to surprise and delight me with their commitment to featuring LGBT characters. So awesome.

And they are interracial, I am so happy.

beyoncyay:

magnicifent:

dorothy-snarker:

Say hello to “The Fosters.” TV’s first drama centered around a family helmed by two moms. ABC Family picked up the series today to begin airing this summer. Love the cop uniform. And the subway tiles.

ABC Family continues to surprise and delight me with their commitment to featuring LGBT characters. So awesome.

And they are interracial, I am so happy.


fotojournalismus:

In Uganda, gay people are being forced into exile. If a new bill becomes law, homosexuality will be punishable by death – which means many people are choosing to leave and seek asylum elsewhere. With the vote on the country’s anti-homosexuality bill set to become public in the coming days, photographer Mathias Christensen met gay people in Uganda who fear the changing of the law.

Gay people in Uganda: love on the run 

by Rasmus Thirup Beck 

(via Guardian)

“Five police officers force three young men out of their one-room slum dwelling in Kampala, with no explanation. As they are dragged down the slum’s main shopping street, their neighbours’ hateful shouts make their “crime” all too clear: “Beat those gays up!” “Kill those monsters!” “Give them what they deserve!”

Threats were also issued – threats they had heard before:

“We’ll burn down your house!”

After two days in a small, dirty prison cell they are released. Now they’ve gone underground, and hope to gain asylum in another country.

“We don’t dare to live here any more. We have felt unsafe for a long time and it only gets worse. It’s all the talk about that law that agitates people. If it is passed I am sure they will burn down the house,” says one, a 23-year-old transsexual who prefers to be called “Bad Black” for safety reasons.

The law he refers to is the so-called “Kill the Gays” bill, which is set to become reality in Uganda within days. It is already illegal to commit a homosexual act in the country, but a unified parliament now supports a tightening of the law, which, among other things, will make it punishable by death to be a “serial offender”.

The parliamentarian behind the bill is David Bahati. He describes homosexuality as an evil that has to be fought. He also says that he and his peers “do not hate the homosexuals but the sin in them”.

Bahati’s reference to sin reveals the direct connection between Uganda’s politicians and a group of very influential pastors. One of these pastors is Moses Solomon Male, who travels the country presenting his talk, Understanding the Challenges of Homosexuality (Sodomy).

“Those homosexuals … They call it anal sex. It ruins the anus. And they say they enjoy it,” said Male in a recent speech to Sunday-school pupils in a Kampala suburb. He also described the cornerstone of both the pastors’ and the politicians’ argument against homosexuals: That they are “recruiting” innocents to their side – especially children.

LGBT rights advocates are doing their best to challenge these views – and the bill. One of these, transsexual activist Pepe Julian Onziema, has courageously come out with his message as well as his sexuality. Homosexuality is not something you become, it is something you are, he stresses.

“The only thing we can do is to try to inform as many people as possible about how we’re human beings just like them – just with different sexual preferences,” he explains.” 

All photographs taken by Mathias Christensen.